How does she do it? The woman in your office who looks sexy every single
day.
Confidence.
The key to being sexy is being confident about who you are.
But if your self-esteem is a little shaky and your confidence has been rattled
by a nasty break-up, you're probably not feeling your sexy best…and you're not
sure you'll ever feel that way again.
There are a few things you can do to look more confident,
and eventually feel more confident until you start to feel that you're getting
your sexy back.
1. Discover your style.
Take the time to go through your closet and pick out the
clothes that make you feel good when you're wearing them. Pitch the clothes that
make you feel fat or look dumpy. Spend some quality time in front of the mirror
and be honest with yourself. When you're out shopping remember that men are
attracted to women who wear red, and black will make you feel skinny…and maybe
a little bit sexier.
2. Ditch the negative talk.
Don't like your big butt? Stop telling people you hate it
and embrace it. It's part of who you are! And stop playing "if only"
mind games with yourself when you're sippin' solo lattes. Twenty pounds won't
change if you're hot or not. Love who you are right now!
3. Get up and dance.
Turn up the tunes and dance by yourself in your living room.
Play all of your favorite songs and let yourself go. No one is judging you. As
you move you'll find yourself feeling more confident in your own skin. Don't
like to dance -- then go for a run, or a walk in a park. Getting out and about
can completely change your mood.
4. Do what you love to do.
Maybe you have a job that pays the bills, but doesn't
satisfy your artistic side. Then you should take a painting class in your free
time. Invest in an activity that makes you feel whole and awesome inside and
out. If you don't know what makes you feel that way, then spend some time
finding out what your passion is -- and then embrace it 100%.
5. No more wallpaper.
When you're in a social situation with bad hair or clothes
that make you feel fat, do you get quiet and stand in a corner until you can
make your great escape? You're not alone. Recognize your fear and embrace it.
Do just the opposite -- pretend you've got all the confidence in the world and
start talking and asking questions of the handsome strangers in the room.
6. Make eye contact.
Lower your head and look up and directly into his eyes when
you're talking to him. Smile and relax. He's actually interested in what you
have to say. And when you nail him with your direct gaze, he'll find you simply
irresistible.
7. Flirt like you do it for a living.
Say the first thing that comes out of your mouth! Tell
yourself that it's all just for practice. Stop being so serious and enjoy it.
Laugh! Say what you feel. Be confident that people want to hear what you have
to say. It's okay to be a little sassy and provocative. We like you that way!
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