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It's summertime and as the temperatures heat up, so do our thoughts about love and sex. Summer is a great time to meet someone new and enjoy the pleasures of a new romance. If you're sitting around the house daydreaming about romance, it's time to get off the sofa and get out and join the party.
We've got ten great places for you to meet your summer romance.
1. Beach
You don't have to look like a Sports Illustrated super model to have fun at the beach. All you have to do is get there. You can go and spend the day playing in the water and on the sand. Or you can go and read a book in the shade of an umbrella while listening to the relaxing sounds of waves lapping against the shore. Take a walk in the waves. Say "hi" to every person and every puppy that you meet. You just never know when you might find "the one."
2. Ball Game
You don't have to spend a fortune on tickets for a MLB game. (But if you look, you may find some cheap tickets in the outfield.) It's all about atmosphere, and an MLB game is all about enjoying a summer evening with friends. The game is slow and relaxing. There's singing during the seventh inning stretch and ice cream. No MLB near you? Watch a college baseball game on campus or try a rec league game in a local park.
3. Classroom
School is in for summer! It's the perfect time of year to explore something that you've always wanted to try, but never thought you'd get the chance. Take a sailing, surfing or paddleboarding class at the beach. Or try your hand at gourmet cooking. Sign up for a photography class and go on a safari. The options are endless.
4. Girls' Night Out
You don't have to hang with the boys to meet men. Plan a night out with your friends, and when you're having all that fun, you'll be sure to draw the attention of people who want to join in.
5. Farmers Market
You don't have to be a couple to enjoy a Farmers Market. In fact, you're more likely to interact and enjoy the vendors if you're alone. Take samples and ask questions. You may discover something (or someone) completely new.
6. Outdoor Movies
It's hard to find a local drive-in theatre -- but there are parks everywhere that are screening movies on the sides of buildings (and monuments in at least one Hollywood cemetery) in almost every city. Find out when your favorite guilty pleasure is showing -- and go.
7. Dog Park
It's a well-known fact that a man with a baby carriage is a chick magnet. And a girl with a dog on the other end of her leash is going to attract a lot of attention too. Make sure you and your pooch are friendly and outgoing.
8. Volunteer
There's one thing you should know about volunteering -- you will always get in return more than you are able to give. You'll find that giving of your time is more fun than just giving money. Find a charity that means something to you -- and volunteer.
9. Amusement Park
It's a place that's meant for people to have fun. Isn't that the perfect time and place to meet someone special? And you'll know exactly where to go on the anniversary of your first date.
10. Ice Cream Store
Let's face it, now that it stays light out so late, there's no reason to hang around in the house catching up on reruns. Get out and take a stroll up the street to your favorite ice cream spot or Fro Yo stand. It's the perfect cool treat on a hot summer night. And you never know who you might meet while you're standing in line.
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It's the first day of summer. That means beach season has officially begun. Many people look forward to a day frolicking at the beach, but for others it's a day filled with horrors -- starting with putting on a bathing suit.
A day at the beach can be fun…and sexy. We've got some ideas about how you can feel so sexy at the beach that Giselle Budchen won't have anything on you!
Get A Bathing Suit That Fits
You don't have to wear a string bikini. In fact, you shouldn't wear one unless that's how you feel the most comfortable. Instead find a suit that fits -- both your body and your style. There are stores online where you can buy different sized tops and bottoms. Go vintage and show your curves off like a pin-up. Or go more athletic with a one piece suit that will allow you to play in the sand and the waves.
Be Confident
Being confident often means being prepared. That means that you should bring all the essentials for a day at the beach. Don't forget your sunscreen and a snack. Bring and extra towel or two -- hair accessories, bug spray and band-aids are a great idea. And you might want to bring some lube -- just in case. (Go with silicone-based because it doesn't break down in water.) Select a back pack or beach tote that's big enough to fit everything you need.
Wear A Hat
Let's face it. If you're going to spend a day getting in and out of the water, you're probably not going to be able to maintain a blow-dry style. There's no need to fuss. Plan on wearing a hat. It will help keep the sun off your face and make you feel chic and sexy.
Smell Good
There is nothing sexier than a tropical breeze. Make sure you smell like one by moisturizing with your favorite aromatherapy oils before you leave for the beach. Apply your SPF sunscreen at the beach. And reapply often.
Be Active
Don't spend the day baking like a cookie on an oven rack. Enjoy your time at the water. There are so many activities that you can't do anywhere else. Go for a hike along the shore. Swim and body surf in the waves. If the water is smooth, you can learn how to paddleboard. If you want to stay on dry land, then play volleyball or touch football.
Spend Some Time Alone
There is nothing sexier than a man or woman with a secret. So don't feel like you have to be the life of the party. Take some time to nap in the shade or read a book under an umbrella. Someone might be intrigued enough to come over and ask questions.
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If you're in your twenties, you're probably spending almost every weekend this summer going to someone's wedding. If it isn't one of your friends, then you're going to be going as someone's Plus One.
Weddings can be great places to meet and socialize with people outside of your social circle. You might make a new friend or score a hot date, but before you turn down a wedding invitation, we've got some ideas about how you can turn a summer wedding invite into an opportunity for a hook up, or romance.
We've got a few dos and don'ts about being the perfect "Plus One" at a summer wedding.
Do Be Mr. Right Now
Your date might not be the woman of your dreams, but you probably aren't the man of her dreams either. That doesn't mean that you should fuss and fight all night. Find out what you have in common and share those things. You just never know, you might end up finding romance. Or it might be a hot hook up. Either way, be honest about what you both want out of the evening before you start drinking.
Do Bust A Move On The Dance Floor
Aunt Martha hasn't been asked out on the dance floor for years, why not make her night and ask her to dance? Dance with your date at least once. And make sure there isn't someone else who's pining to get out on the dance floor. Doing something nice for someone else, especially a total stranger, always pays back in dividends.
Don't Drink Like It's An Open Bar
…Even if it is. Not having close friends or family members at a social event isn't an invitation for bad behavior. Since the liquor tab is being picked up, there may be a long line at the bar. Make an effort to go and stand in line and get drinks for more than one person at your table. Why not? It makes you look like a hero.
Don't Forget To Thank The Host
Even if you don't know the family hosting the wedding. A few words of thanks and some thoughtful best wishes for the bride and groom are a nice way to make sure you are well-remembered.
Don't Be Late
Make sure that the bride is the last person down the aisle. If you're the guest of a guest, you want to make sure that you're not the reason that the nuptials are put on hold.
Do Network
Are you in the job market? There's no reason why you shouldn't take the name and email address of the bride's uncle who may be hiring in the future. Looking for a date? If there's someone you find attractive at the wedding, there's no reason you shouldn't
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What Does Your Man Want Most For Father's Day?
Father's Day isn't just about kids showing appreciation for their dads. It's about you showing some extra love and TLC to the men in your life — including your significant other. This Father's Day, get back to the basics. Make your man feel like the sexiest man alive by carving out time for the two of you to spend time together. That's how it all began. Tell your partner that you want to make sure that sex and intimacy is always a part of your daily lives. Having a healthy sex life will make the good times you share together even better, and the inevitable rough patches you hit a little easier to bear. We've got some ideas for celebrating the man in your life.
Give the gift of oral sex. It's always the right size and it never goes out of style. Yes, it may seem a little clichéd, but if your man works hard and makes you and your children the center of his world, he deserves something really special. So maybe you can wake him up with a kiss he won't soon forget. It's the gift that keeps on giving. You never know, your man just might return the favor.
Show a little skin and give him some sexy photos of you. You can go all out and hire a professional photographer to make you look like a Maxim model. Or you can take your own photos on your cell phone and send them to him throughout the day like breadcrumbs. By the time he gets home, he'll be willing to follow you almost anywhere.
Plan a romantic getaway just for two. Return to a place that is special to both of you, or explore a new location that you've never been to before. Want to step over the line? Make plans to spend the day at a nude beach or European-style pool. Really want to wow him? Surprise him with plans for a weekend at a clothing-optional resort.
He works hard for his money and when he gets home he's always your honey. Doesn't he deserve a sensual massage? Give him the gift of relaxation and release. You can give him a certificate for a massage (and maybe join him for a couples rub down). Or, even better, you can give his muscles a little rub-and-tug in the privacy of your own home.
The way to a man's heart is through his stomach. So it seems like on Father's Day, a great way for you to celebrate your man is to serve him a meal of his favorite foods. Hot wings and nachos aren't health foods, but just this once you can give your man what he wants and not remind him to go to the gym. Maybe you can have sex at home instead.
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The temperatures are starting to sizzle and now that it's light out long after dinner, you've got to admit that you and your special someone are more active. With all that extra free time on your hands, it's no wonder your thoughts stray to getting sexy in the great outdoors.
For many people it's a big turn on. It can be a little risky because in some locations you risk getting caught, but it's a chance you just might want to take. We've got some great ideas for sizzling summer sex locations.
1. Your Backyard
If you've got privacy, why not try a sprinkler skinny-dip? Running naked through a sprinkler in your backyard is about as erotic (and fun) as it gets.
2. In The Water
Send the kids off to Grandma's house and enjoy some quality time in your backyard pool or spa. No reason that you need to wear bathing suits.
3. The Car
It's not as easy as it sounds, but it will make you feel like you're back in high school again. Just be sure not to get a cramp or get arrested.
4. Inside A Tent
Sex in a tent can be romantic and sexy. You have to be adventurous and enjoy camping. And sometimes you have to enjoy Grizzly bears, sleeping on rocks, and food cooked over a campfire.
5. Up On The Roof
They write songs about getting freaky on the roof of buildings. If you live in a big city, you'll never wonder why. It's the closest you can get to having sex under the stars without camping (see above).
6. On A Screened Porch
It's the perfect place for first timers to try having sex in the great outdoors. Yes, you're out in the open, but you still have a roof over your head and so, technically, you're still indoors.
7. Five Yard Line
So many people fantasize about having sex in the stadium of their favorite sports team. Just remember if you choose to turn your fantasy into reality, watch out for security guards and sprinkler systems on timers.
8. Under A Waterfall
After a hike back to a remote and exotic location, there is no better way to celebrate. Ask a local tour guide for directions to a hidden waterfall.
9. On A Boat
On a small boat in the middle of the water you and your lover can enjoy a feeling of privacy like you can in few other places on earth. Why not indulge your passion and rock the boat?
10. On A Swing
That tire swing on your grandparent's farm that you used to fly on every summer as a child, could bring you all kinds of new joy as an adult. You just have to wait until everyone else is in bed and try to be quiet.
11. In A Dark Alley
This location is best when you're traveling to a seductive city like New Orleans or a small European village where the streets are narrow and not well traveled.
12. An Air Conditioned Room
When you're had your fill of having sex outdoors (if that's even possible), go home and have sex in front of the air conditioner. When the temperatures outside are in the triple digits outside, it is a blast!
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“Summer lovin’… had me a blast.”
Ahh, yes! With the countdown to summer vacation in full effect, you can already taste poolside piña coladas and the lips of the sexy local that you’ll fall for this summer.
As cliché as the “summer fling” is conceived to be, there are many of reasons why they work, and why they don't. A summer fling usually lasts longer than a one night stand, and it tends to be a little more romantic than "friends with benefits." So, should you have a "summer romance" this year?
We've put together a list of pros and cons of summer romance,. so you can decide for yourself and tell us in the comments below if you're going to indulge in a summer fling this year, or not. And why...
Pros
1. Gives you the opportunity to date someone outside of your social circle.
Maybe you've gotten into a rut and only date people who orbit in and around your social circle. Summer is the perfect time to break out of that rut and date someone just because they are geographically desirable. Who cares what they do for a living? It's all about if they're free on Friday night.
2. You won't have any emotional attachments.
Maybe you've just gotten out of a long term commitment. Now is the perfect time to let your emotions take a vacation while you do something that just feels so good.
3. Gives you a break from reality.
You can take a break from all the hats that you wear in your day-to-day life. This is especially important for single moms who don't have time for themselves. Instead of being a mom, this summer you can be a lover.
4. Be clear about what you want.
If you're just in it for the summer, make sure that everyone is clear what the rules are before you begin. That way there won't be any hurt feelings in the end.
5. Be bold.
Do something that challenges your comfort zone. If you usually wait for your partners to choose you, a summer fling is the perfect time for you to be bold and make some decisions.
Cons
1. You could complicate an already complicated relationship.
Getting involved in a summer fling just to make someone you're involved with back home jealous is not romantic at all.
2. You may be on opposite wavelengths; you want a fling and he wants commitment.
Be honest and be compassionate. Don't use someone just for your own needs.
3. Your fling could be married or committed.
Just because you feel like throwing caution to the wind, doesn't mean that you should cross the line into infidelity. Look before you leap.
4. Timing is everything.
You may be in the right place for a summer romance, both in spirit and in location -- but you may not find someone who is of like minds.
5. Your time could be better spent.
More daylight hours in the summertime makes us all more active and able to get more work done. Is there something else you should be doing this summer that might be more productive? Make sure that your summer romance isn't just a way to procrastinate from some hard work.
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Summer is the perfect time to skip the same old dinner and a movie routine, and go outside and enjoy a hot (and hopefully, getting hotter summer night…).
You don't have to spend a lot of money to have a lot of fun during the summer months. We've got some great ideas for cheap dates that will get you and your significant other enjoying some quality time together.
1. Hiking
It doesn't matter whether you live in the city or the country, a romantic stroll is a great date. You can get to know each other better while you see some sights and enjoy nature.
2. Biking
What's more romantic than a bike ride? A bicycle built for two. You can rent one for cheap. biking is relaxing and healthy. Take a ride down the boardwalk or dirt path.
3. Art Exhibit or Museum
Get a little culture and enjoy a little art. Many museums have free hours during summer evenings. And galleries will often entice customers with free wine and cheese.
4. Outdoor Movie
Many cities offer a variety of outdoor movies during the summer. Pack a blanket and snuggle up to a great comedy or thriller.
5. Putt-Putt Golf
You don't have to have any golf skills to be dynamite at miniature golf. All you have to do is be able to make the ball go into the hole. You can do that, can't you?
6. Baseball Game
You can get seats in the bleachers of most MLB parks for only $5. Want to get closer to the action? Check out college and minor league baseball games. Batter up!
7. Wine, Food or Beer Festivals
Indulge yourselves in your favorite flavors. There are many festivals celebrating food and beverages in order to tempt you to become a fan. It's a great way to spend a day!
8. Sports
It doesn't matter if it's one-on-one or an organized recreational league, there is no better way to get to know someone with a little friendly competition.
9. Open Mic Night
Sharing a laugh together is the perfect way to spend a first date. You'll come home with an inside joke that will make you both laugh for years to come.
10. Yard Sale
Who doesn't love finding a bargain? It will be even more fun if you go on a treasure hunt together.
11. You Pick Farm
Strawberries, zucchinis, peaches and tons of other delicious fruits are in season. Take your significant other off to your local farm and see what's ripe in your area.
12. Cook Out
Stoke the flames of passion on your backyard grill. Get creative and grab a couple friends and have a potluck grill-a-thon.
13. Picnic
Take a blanket and pack a picnic basket full of your favorite wine, snacks and cheeses. There is no better way to spend time together in the summer than under the shade of a tree.
14. Photo Safari
Everybody's phone has a built-in phone, so why not document your day. Get artistic and tinker with different settings and take sweet (or naughty) headshots of each other.
15. Outdoor Concert
Music under the stars, it doesn't get any better. You don’t' have to pay top dollar for concert tickets. Many cities offer free outdoor concerts.
16. Theatre in the Park
Summer is for Shakespeare! Most theatre companies offer theatre in the great outdoors in the summer and ticket prices are often discounted. Get thee to the park!
17. Star Gazing
It's cheap and it's oh-so very romantic. Look up into the night sky and you'll never know what you might find. Maybe even a shooting star to wish upon.
18. Farmers Market
Head over to the farmers market and check out the local produce. Most vendors are happy to let you sample produce and gourmet cheeses. Maybe, you'll find the ingredients for a romantic dinner for two.
19. Road Trip
There's a place on the outskirts of town that you've always wanted to go -- but have always been too busy to stop. Now is the time to check it out. It's the perfect place for a first date.
20. Bowling
A sport that involves drinking beer and eating nachos has to be fun. And it's also a sport that almost anyone can master within an hour. Try a few frames together!
21. Car Show
Get his motor running! A car show is like a street festival. There is always a band, a food truck and people out to have a good time.
22. Video Marathon
Act like a couple of couch potatoes and have a Netflix marathon of a TV show that neither one of you has ever seen before.
23. Volunteer
Do good and have fun! It won't cost you anything but time to pitch in and help out at your local community center or homeless shelter.
24. Library Night
Get library cards together! You'll discover that a library is just like your favorite bookstore -- only the books are free and you can make out in the stacks.
25. Have Sex
Why not? It is (mostly) free. And it's definitely something that you both enjoy doing together. So make some time to get sexy together.
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Stop the presses! We can't believe what we heard through the Internet grapevine overnight.
Actor Michael Douglas, star of stage and screen and husband of the beautiful Catherine Zeta-Jones says cunnilingus causes cancer?
Could that be true?
Seriously?
Douglas was at the Cannes International Film Festival being interviewed by Xan Brooks of The Guardian. When he was asked if he thought his throat cancer was caused by drinking and smoking, he went in another directon that the reporter clearly didn't anticipate.
"No. Because, without wanting to get too specific, this particular cancer is caused by HPV (Human Papilloma Virus), which actually comes about from cunnilingus," Douglas said.
The reporter, believing he may have misheard the actor, asked Douglas to repeat his answer.
"From cunnilingus. I mean, I did worry if the stress caused by my son's incarceration didn't help trigger it. But yeah, it's a sexually transmitted disease that causes cancer."
And so just like that, Michael Douglas has brought awareness to the link between HPV and some forms of cancer. It is, in fact, true that there is a link between HPV and cancer. You can find out more about it in this MSNBC report.
And now Michael Douglas is the new poster boy for oral sex. Who'd guessed that?
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