It’s Friday. The weekend is almost here. You’ve been fantasizing about it all week long, but now that it’s here instead of fantasizing about putting on sexy lingerie and seducing your man on the kitchen countertop, all you can think about is putting on your flannel pajama bottoms and cleaning the bathroom. And he’s just all about making up his brackets for March Madness.
The weekends are a great time to catch up on all the little things around the house you were too tired to do during the week…but it’s also a great time for romance. It’s time to get the sexy back into your weekend. You won’t get into the mood by putting sex on the bottom of your “To Do” list. You’ve got to take the steps to get in the mood.
Here’s a list of ten things you can do to help set the mood for a hot (and hopefully wet) weekend.
1.Listen to music that you both love.
Let the music play. There’s no better way to set a mood than to put on some music. Start out with something upbeat and then transition into something more romantic and steamy.
2.Dance all over your house.
Get into the groove. Channel you inner Lady Gaga. Don’t be shy, no one will ever know that you rock the mashed potato. Get up and dance together and then strip down in your underwear.
3.Light candles in your bedroom.
Shakespeare wrote all those love poems by candlelight – and there’s a good reason why. Everyone seems more beautiful in candlelight. Just remember someone has to get up and blow out the candles when you’re done.
4.Give each other a foot massage.
Let him start out at the tips of your toes and let him work his way up to your knees. It’s your choice of you let him go any further, but we’re betting you’ll be so relaxed and revved up that he’ll have you begging for mercy.
5.Take a bath together.
Prepare to form your own Olympic nude luge team! Water and naked skin will lead to sex. You don’t have to fill the tub with bubbles, but it can be fun to make hats and Dr. Suess-like additions to each other’s naked body parts.
6.Go to a sporting event.
The thrill of athletic competition can be enough to get anyone’s sexual motor started. Go to a hockey or basketball game and by the time you get home, you’ll be jumping each other’s bones.
7.Make a Jacuzzi or hot tub date.
If you don’t have one in your own backyard, it’s even better. Go to the one in your neighborhood or at a hotel and see if you can keep your hands off each other in a public place. By the time you get home, you’ll be begging for it.
8.Go shopping for bedroom toys.
What else could be more fun than going to a place that’s all about the business of pleasure. Perhaps you’ll discover something entirely new that add an entirely new layer to your lovemaking.
9.Go out for cocktails and appetizers.
There’s some “Mad Men” glamor in going out just for cocktails and appetizers. You’ll get tipsy and share your eggrolls and if you haven’t had a big heavy meal you’ll both be more intrigued about getting active.
10.Stay home and stay naked.
Declare it “Naked Television” night and stay home. You won’t be able to watch all the shows saved on your DVR before you’ll be nibbling on each other’s body parts.
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