One: Do A Little Dance
In the words of Henry KC and the Sunshine Band, “Do a little dance. Make a little love. Get down tonight, baby! Get down tonight!” There is nothing that will get you both in the mood faster than relaxing to some of your favorite tunes. Every couple has their song. Find out what song makes you both get into the groove and play it. Play it loud. Laugh and enjoy!
Two: Poetry Jam
John Lennon said it best. “All you need is love. Love is all you need.” When it is spoken out-loud it makes it all that much more powerful. Or send your love in a letter. You don’t have to put a stamp on it. You can deliver it by hand, but just make sure that your loved one has time alone to take in all that you have to say. You’ll never regret saying too much.
Three: Your Kodak Moment
There’s a reason why all of the high school kids are texting naughty photos to each other. It’s good, clean dirty fun. So snap a scintillating and revealing photo and send it to your partner. You may need to use some discretion so that a dirty picture doesn’t arrive just as he’s giving a big presentation to his boss.
Four: Ohm, Ohm, Ohm..Migod I’m So Relaxed
You make endless lists of things to do, at work, at home and even when you play. It’s time to let it all go and do something for pure relaxation. Choose whatever you enjoy the most -- Yoga, Tai Chi, or couples massages. Just make sure that you do nothing else but relax.
Five: Light My Fire
When you want to set the mood for sex, you want to make sure that you are feeding all of your senses. Light some candles, burn incense or share potpourri. Use Inttimo by WetAromatherapy Massage & Bath Oils on your skin and in your bath water.
Six: I Feel Pretty
It’s hard to light his fire when you’re wearing his old T-shirt and a pair of clown pants pajama bottoms. Maybe it’s time to spend the extra effort to glam things up a little. Maybe a babydoll nightie or a plunging nightgown? Or get dirty with a corset and thong? Whatever it is just be sure that it’s special and out of the ordinary.
Seven: The Nitty and The Gritty
It’s not sexy, but sometimes you have to schedule your intimate moments together. Making the time to be together is better than not making the time. So get a babysitter, lock the bedroom door and be there at the agreed upon time and be ready to get some good lovin’. Be active and initiate passion. There’s nothing better than being loved and being wanted in return.