It¹s summertime and the living is not always so easy. Your social calendar is full of weddings you absolutely must attend. You're trying to squeeze an extra hour of exercise and outdoor activities into each day while it's still light out until late. And your work load hasn't lightened up. In fact you're working extra to make up for time you took off over the summer holidays and to cover your co-workers' vacation schedules. If you don't slow down, summer is going to be over before you get a chance to enjoy it. Make a plan to spend the last month of summer putting the focus on relaxation. Establish a healthy routine that brings you peace and puts you on the road to bliss. We've got ideas to make all of your daily tasks more enjoyable. And then you'll be able to find the time for the things you really want to do…like have a lot of sex!
Ah, the perfect way to relax in the summer is to go to the spa. Take a friend and relax with a massage or a facial and just let your mind be blank for an entire day while you’re pampered by the professionals. Or if you stay at home for a do-it-yourself spa day, make sure you designate a quiet area in the house where you won’t be disturbed or distracted.
Leave the kids behind for a trip to the pool, because it’s not just any old hot summer day outing. Go to the pool with the intention of relaxing and unwinding. Bring a towel that’s fresh and fluffy out of the dryer. Lay it out on a pool chair and bask in the glorious sunshine. Close your eyes and let yourself fall asleep if you feel like it. Or nap in the shade if that’s what turns you on.
It's steamy hot outside, so why not make it just as hot inside when you relax at home with a steamy DVD. Find a sexy movie that turns you both on and a cool space to relax. As you watch, feed each other popsicles or chilled white wine. Kissing and nuzzling will soon lead to body massages. The next thing you know, you'll be teaching the people in the film you're watching a new move or two.
You don't have to wait until you are in bed to unleash your sexual beast. Let your sexuality shine when you tell your lover that you're going to run errands…but you're not wearing any panties underneath your miniskirt. Or send some sexy texts to your significant other while you are away from each other with all the dirty details of what you plan to do to him when you're together again.
After a night of sexual escapades make plans to have breakfast Al Fresco. You're already feeling relaxed after an evening of amorous activity, so put on a sexy robe and serve pancakes and orange juice outside on the patio. That maple syrup doesn't have to be limited for use on the pancake. There are plenty of other places you might want to try drizzling it. Then have him lick it off.
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Are you thinking about whipping up a summer love potion?
It's that time of year when things get sizzling hot outside and your thoughts become focused on sex and romance. It's the perfect time of year to include a few foods that may have aphrodisiac properties in a romantic dinner just for two.
We've got some great ideas about what you should have on your table to increase you and your lover's libido.
Strawberries: How could a tiny fruit that's covered in seeds not be a symbol of fertility and sex? It's also delicious and sweet. And perfect when paired with the year-round libido-stimulating chocolate. Yum!
Honey: You can drizzle it all over your lover's body and then lick it off for fun. Honey was once known as the “nectar of Aphrodite" and has been known to have properties that give people an extra boost of energy.
Basil: This leafy herb is said to increase blood flow, and as you know, sex is all about the blood flow. So nibble a little basil and don't be surprised if you notice your sex drive revving up. If that doesn't pump up your libido, what will?
Arugula: It's spicy! And it makes a delicious summer salad, especially when you include asparagus, a vegetable that's been known to boost your stamina (in bed).
Tomatoes: These delicious fruits of summer were once known as "love apples." Pair them with basil and some fresh mozzarella to make a summer salad that will certainly satisfy you and whet your appetite for a little somethin' somethin' after dinner.
Bananas: How can you not consider this phallic shaped treat an aphrodisiac. Not only is it delicious, the potassium punch that it packs will keep you from getting muscle cramps when you're involved in *ahem* strenuous activity.
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Are you ready to make your love life as steamy hot as the temperatures outside? It's time to celebrate summer's real sizzle. In honor of longer days and hot balmy nights, we’ve got some great ideas for you and your significant other to really feel the heat during this summer season. The summer will last longer when you're in the middle of a summer romance. So take the time to start something new with someone special or toss some extra fuel onto your current one. Here are some ideas that will really spice up your summer!
Go skinny dipping! Find a place to get naked together in the great outdoors. You can get creative without getting caught. Sneak out on the balcony of your hotel, paddle a boat out into the middle of the lake, or go swimming late at night and see where the mood takes you. The memories of your risque outdoor escape will give you pleasure for months to come.
Turn up the heat! It's hot, why not make it even hotter? Try having sex without the air conditioner. Go ahead, get sweaty. Want to make it hotter? Try a warming lubricant when you give your man a hand job. The dangerous combination of will make your man sizzle more than the summer sun. Before he reaches climax, get on top of him – the lubricant will you drive wild too!
Do you remember how excited you used to get when you were a kid and you heard the ice cream truck coming down the street? You'll get even more excited when you take turns sliding popsicles over each other’s bodies. Make sure you pay special attention to the erogenous zones. Popsicles taste better ice cubes, and all that licking will eventually lead to a two-person shower -- and won't that be fun?
The next time you're at a bar together, surprise your guy by asking him if he'd like body shot of his favorite liquor. You'll have to keep it R-rated in public. But you can take it up a notch at home on your patio by serving drinks that have been poured into each other's belly button or between your breasts. Hot summer sex is sure to follow!
Can't afford a trip to an exotic location this summer? Why not try some exotic cuisine instead? There are many ethnic restaurants in your local area that you've never tried. Why not try a meal that comes with a belly dance? Or you can always find a recipe and try it out at home together. Make a meal that includes aphrodisiac ingredients and things might get really spicy after dinner!
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Most people will tell you that they hate dating. Especially first dates. You're both nervous. You're both uncertain. You're feeling unfamiliar. And it's a lot like a job interview, so you're worried about making a good impression.
What if instead of worrying about making a good impression, you put the focus on your date. You make them feel comfortable by asking questions about them. That would probably make them feel like you are interested in them. And it would be a great way to make a good first impression.
So all you would need is a few questions to get the conversation started on your first date. But remember to be engaged and listen to the answers. Don't interrupt.
Here are 20 Questions to break the silence.
1. Where do you work? What do you do? Have you found your dream job?
2. What's your favorite dessert?
3. What food do you hate?
4. What's your favorite movie of all time? What kind of movies do you like?
5. What do you do in your free time? What do you do for fun? What is your passion?
6. Where is your dream travel destination? Have you ever been there?
7. Are you a cat or a dog person?
8. If you ruled the world, what would you change about it?
9. What's the best piece of advice you ever gotten from a total stranger?
10. Who do you admire most? Not famous and famous.
11. Are you an early bird or a night owl?
12. What's one thing about you that would surprise me?
13. Where do you feel the most relaxed?
14. What's your favorite way to spend a Saturday?
15. If your house was on fire, what’s the first thing you’d grab to save?
16. When you were little, what did you want to be when you grew up?
17. What was your worst job ever?
18. What’s the bravest thing you’ve ever done?
19. What’s the luckiest thing that’s ever happened to you?
And just in case things are going well and you want to go a little deeper:
20. How long ago was your last relationship? Why do you think it didn't work?
But that last one is really a question that you can explore further on your second date.
Remember, it is the other person's first date with you too and they may be just as nervous. Just relax, listen, and enjoy getting to know the other person on your first date. You never get a second chance to have a good first date.
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Let's face it, summer makes you want to be on vacation every day. Unfortunately, you've got so many responsibilities that are keeping you busy. And preventing you from enjoy the warm weather and hot romance with your significant other.
We've got some ideas of how you can get together and enjoy each other even if you're both over-scheduled. Time for sex, anyone?
Get Pedicures Together
Get pampered together as a pair! Go get pedicures and foot massages. Don't forget to bring your flip flops.
Dine Under the Stars
Go out for dinner and ask to be seated outside. You'll feel like you're on vacation almost every night of the week. Enjoy dining under the stars.
Meet Up for Happy Hour
Head over to a local restaurant for Happy Hour! Sip on a frozen daiquiri and share some appetizers before heading home for sex. Or dinner. Whichever comes first.
Make Ice Cream
You can get an ice cream making attachment for your mixer and make your own at home. Spice things up a bit by using some ingredients with aphrodisiac qualities.
Watch a movie—outside
You can see an outdoor movie in parks and on lawns during the warmer months. Join the crowd or enjoy a showing of a classic like Casablanca in your own backyard. It's the ultimate romantic
backdrop.
Channel your inner child
Let your hair down and set up a play date with your guy. Go to the park and hang upside down on the jungle gym. Or try tossing a Frisbee, or playing a game of Wiffle Ball.
Get Sudsy
Take a bubble bath together. After a sweltering summer day, getting a little wet-n-wild with your partner can be refreshing...and sexy.
Choose A Side
There's nothing that gets sparks flying as much as a little competition. You can choose your battle. Choose to play cards, a board game or a video game. (Strip Monopoly, anyone?)
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