Get Going On A Summer Sex Getaway!

Can't decide where to go on your summer vacation? 

Whether you want to rekindle romance, or just relax with your loved one, sometimes getting away from it all is the best way to go. When you and your partner are planning your vacation, make a list places you both find exciting.  Taking a trip that you both find exciting will up the passion quotient in your relationship. Consider going on a beach vacation, taking a cruise, a trip to a romantic city, or getaway to an exotic faraway location. Just know that getting away together is more important than where you go.

Beach Vacation

Beach vacations topped the list of the most romantic destinations in a recent survey. If a sun and sand-filled getaway is your desire, consider taking in a gorgeous Caribbean seascape in your own secluded beach bungalow. On the island you and your lover can go off the beaten path to find an idyllic private beach where you can get naked.

Romantic Road Trip

Hit the road for romance! Getting in the car and heading out to points unknown can spark romance for adventurous couples. Road trips can put the sizzle back into your sex life as you explore new destinations together. And the backseat of your car is always available just in case a roadside attraction sparks a spur of the moment make out session inspired by a roadside attraction. 

History Of Sex

Vacationers looking for a sexual history lesson should head to Amsterdam. The city is home to one of the world’s most famous red light districts, and two very sexy museums. The Erotic Museum has attractions including erotic sketches of John Lennon, and The Sex Museum has exhibits on sex through the centuries.

Home of Romance

Venice is considered to be the Capital of Romance. It’s easy to see why: Venice boasts canals full of serenading gondoliers, beautiful architecture, winding alleyways and mysterious fog. Take your honey out for a night on the town, and then return to your hotel room for a night of delicious decadence.

Pleasure Cruise

Exotic island destinations, balmy ocean breezes, starry nights, and tropical drinks? Set sail for sensual pleasure on the high seas. Whether your definition of romance is an all-night rave, dinner for two, or the ultimate in pampering and luxury, you'll find just what you're looking for onboard a cruise ship. 

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What To Do When He's Not In The Mood

It's a misconception that men are always in the mood for sex. Women need flowers, candy and romance to get revved up for sex, but men seem always willing to go. But the modern world is full of distractions and disturbances, and sometimes guys are just not that into it.

If your man isn't as amped up for red hot lovin' as he used to be, you shouldn't jump to any conclusions. Just because he's not as interested as he once was doesn't mean that he isn't interested in you at all -- or that he's cheating -- it just means that something else has his attention. In the current economic climate his lack of interest may have more to do with worry about losing his job or if he's not currently employed, looking for work. A man's ability to provide a home for his family has everything to do with his self-worth, so there's many reasons why a guy could let his interest in sex slide a little.

So what can you do to get your man's mind back to the pleasure at hand? We've got some ideas that might steam up your bedroom on hot summer nights.

1. A tantalizing, slow strip tease

Men are visual creatures. He's going to find you very hard to resist when you're wearing nothing but a thong and a toe ring. Put on your favorite song (or better yet, put some of his favorite music on) and then remove your clothes slowly.

2. A deep passionate wet kiss

Remember what it was like the first time you kissed. You felt the tingle right down to your toes. Try to recreate that moment. Take your time and be very, very thorough. 

3. A massage

Isn't that how he seduces you when you're not in the mood. What's good for the goose can be just as good for the gander. Ask him to take off his shirt and get comfortable. Start at his shoulders and work your way down…

4. Speak kind and loving words

When you're feeling blue, doesn't it feel better to know that someone has your back. If your guy is not in the mood because of stress, you can relieve some of his tension by letting him know that you've got his back.

5. Make a meal of his favorite foods

Your mama always told you that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. And she wasn't lying. A meal of good foods is a great way to relax and unwind, and then you can offer yourself for dessert.

6. Touch his junk

Maybe it's time to the do the reach around. Approach him on the stairs and go for it. Let him know exactly what you want by putting your fingers all over, under and around it.

7. Masturbate in front of him

He's been begging for you to do this in front of him, so give him the pleasure of seeing you in ecstasy. He won't be able to turn you down.

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Where Are Your Erogenous Zones?

For men it seems simple. They get turned on by getting their genitals stroked, but there are other parts of their bodies that you can caress in order to make them aroused. When was the last time you touched them?

  And what about women? What spot can men touch that will drive women absolutely crazy?

The truth is that not all men and women are the same. You'll have to take the time to discover where your partner's erogenous zones are, but what a pleasure it will be to explore all of their body parts to find the hidden erogenous zones. 

Where should you begin?

Most people get turned on through kissing -- which leads to touching, which leads to intercourse -- and then it's over. The body parts that are most often involved in sex are the lips, fingertips and genitals, but have you ever discovered that you have hidden body parts that make you instantly turned-on when they're stimulated? A casual brush across the nape of the neck and you are ready to tear the clothes off your partner. 

Who knew?

Take your time and touch and caress. There are lots of body parts to discover during foreplay. Take your time and find out what makes your partner moan.

Leave no skin untouched.

It may be the inside of the wrist, the nape of the neck, or the eyelids. The inside of the thighs are highly sensitive to touching, stroking and licking. Or maybe it's the feet.  How will you ever know until you try? Nibble on his earlobe. Does his moan with pleasure? Or maybe you should try a playful nip on her ankle. Make a thorough exploration of each other's bodies. All it may take is a little hot breath on the neck or a long, slow stroke down the spine. 

Touch and kiss your partner's elbows, knees, armpits, and tummy. Does that give them goose bumps? Then keep going. You're moving in the right direction.

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Does Hot Weather Make Your Sex Life Hotter?

Sex is more fun during a snow storm in front of a warm fire, isn't it? Or maybe you fantasize about one of those lazy days when it's raining outside and you've got nothing else to do, so you and your lover stay in bed and fool around.

The heat wave that's been keeping most parts of the country in triple digits is making it almost impossible to remember those cold winter days when you and your honey would snuggle beneath the sheets before getting it on -- just to warm up a little. 

So, now that it's hot, are you having more sex? You should be. And if you're not, we've got three good reasons why you should reconsider having sex when it's hotter than ever.

1. Fewer layers of clothes.

Let's face it, when it's hot outside, everyone starts wearing less clothes. This can be very intriguing. You can discover whole new parts of your lover's body that you never lusted after before. Maybe it's the back of her knee caps, or his belly button, less clothes makes it easier to discover parts that you've never gotten to before.

2. Sweat is sexy!

Who knew? Hot weather makes people perspire and when people perspire, they release their natural pheromones. Pheromones are natural sex signals said to elicit sexual responses and heighten arousal in both males and females. These naturally occurring substances are so powerful that we use them in lube to attract you to your mate. So don't worry if you're working up a sweat in the sunshine, your mate will probably find you even more attractive when you're sweating.

3. Get wet!

When it's hot outside, you're more likely to cool off in water. You can take a shower or bath at home. Or swim in a pool or dip your entire body into the cooling waters at an inland lake or at the seashore. Getting cool after you've been so hot will stimulate your senses and make you feel like you want to be more active. It's a great time to get sexy with your partner.

So tell us, is the hot weather making you more sexually active or less? We want to hear from you.

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Ten Tips For A Successful Long Distance Relationship

Why would anyone sign up to be in a relationship with someone who is  geographically desirable? 

Sometimes it's just not up to you. Career, school and family are just a few of the factors that keep lovers whispering sweet nothings into phones instead of each other's ears. It's not easy to be a part. There are a lot of challenges to overcome. So if you're considering being in a long distance relationship, here are a few tips to consider before you make the commitment.

1. Make sure you both agree you are in a committed long distance relationship.

Set specific rules and make sure you both know the boundaries for social activities outside of your relationship. Make sure you and your partner know exactly where the line is before either of you cross it.

2. Try to communicate every day.

Use text messaging, phone calls, emails and Skype video chats to stay in touch and keep the emotional intimacy that brought you together in the first place going. Have phone sex. Get dirty with each other -- and enjoy the bond.

3. Have a shared hobby.

Watch a television show together. Read the same book. You can do these activities hundreds of miles apart and still be able to discuss and share them with each other. It's an invaluable connection between two lovers who are living separate lives.

4. Take advantage of the benefits of a long distance relationship.

There won't be any arguments over who didn't clean up after dinner. There will be no one to yell at when the toilet seat lid is left up. You can both enjoy traveling to see each other and discover new places in each of the cities you live in. Take the time to learn to be alone and enjoy your own company.

5. Talk about your future together.

It's most likely that you and your partner won't always live in separate places. Talk about the future when distance won't be a factor in your relationship and make plans.

6. Be trusting.

Encourage your partner to be social and interact with the people at their work and in their community. It's healthy and will make them happier.

7. Try not to be jealous.

Jealously is an ugly green monster that can poison a good relationship with unwanted drama. Being overly suspicious is not a desirable quality in a mate.

8. Be there for your partner.

You need to be sure to physically present to celebrate your partner's life achievements. You also need to make arrangements to be at their side if any health problems arise. 

9. Send and share gifts frequently.

Send each other small tokens of affection that remind each other of times when you were together. Share photos often. 

10. When you are together make sure to schedule time to be intimate.

Sex is a part of any health relationship. Make sure that you make plans to be together alone.

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Ten Hot Places To Have Summer Sex

Everyone looks forward to summer, when love is in the air and vacations are on the mind.  You've been looking forward to your summer vacation since Christmas vacation and you've been planning it since spring. There is nothing better than kicking back and enjoying a little time off during the heat of the summer, especially when it's just the two of you getting away to enjoy a little relaxation and romance.

Maybe this is the year when you do something you've always dared each other to do -- have a little bit of sex in the great outdoors. We've got some ideas of where you can go to enjoy yourselves, so slop on some sunscreen and get out there and get it on.

1. Scenic Highway Overlook

You don't have to wait until you're at your vacation destination before the naughty starts, you can begin the fun during your road trip, just pull over at that scenic overlook that you've been wondering about for years and enjoy the view.

2. Screened Porch

If you're allergic to just about anything that grows, move your sensual activities indoors to a porch with a great breeze. You'll be safe from things that sting and go buzz too. And the afterglow won't be spoiled by someone saying, "hey is that a snake?"

3. Grove of Trees

There is no better reason to go on a hike in the woods with someone you love or lust after than to end up on a bed of soft pine needles getting it on. Enough said.

4. Secluded Meadow

The soft caress of meadow grasses and the scent of wildflower blossoms, if that doesn't set your heart on fire, what will? Any woman who's ever read a romance novel will tell you that there is always a scene where the hero and heroine get it on in a beautiful field. Take your chance at a little afternoon delight.

5.  Boat or Boat House

If this boats a-rockin' don't come a-knockin'! There is no more secluded spot to have sex than out in the middle of a body of water. So what are you waiting for? Weather too inclement for a little spin around the lake? Then take advantage of the rainy day to have a little fun inside the rustic charm of the boat house.

6. Beach Blanket

You can spread out your blanket at the beach or deep in the woods. You might want to bring some wine or champagne and some hors d'oeurves . You can consider each other to be the main course in some delicious fun.

7. Slip n' Slide Or Naked Twister

Oops! There is nothing more fun than getting in touch with your inner child while playing naughty games.  And Wet® Original®  will make your party fun stay slippery even longer.

8. In The Water

There is nothing more sensual and stimulating than frolicking in the waves of a beach or in the water of a pool.

9. In The Sand

Not everyone appreciates getting down and dirty in the sand, but for those of you who don't worry about a little mess, there is nothing better to do in the summer.

10. Rooftop Deck or Patio

Sex with a view. Can it get any better? Not much.  Recline on a lounger built for two and get entwined and entangled in each other.

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