12 Top Spots For Sexy Summer Outdoor Lovin'

The temperatures are starting to sizzle and now that it's light out long after dinner, you've got to admit that you and your special someone are more active. With all that extra free time on your hands, it's no wonder your thoughts stray to getting sexy in the great outdoors.

For many people it's a big turn on. It can be a little risky because in some locations you risk getting caught, but it's a chance you just might want to take. We've got some great ideas for sizzling summer sex locations.

1. Your Backyard
If you've got privacy, why not try a sprinkler skinny-dip? Running naked through a sprinkler in your backyard is about as erotic (and fun)  as it gets.

2. In The Water
Send the kids off to Grandma's house and enjoy some quality time in your backyard pool or spa. No reason that you need to wear bathing suits.

3. The Car
It's not as easy as it sounds, but it will make you feel like you're back in high school again. Just be sure not to get a cramp or get arrested.

4. Inside A Tent
Sex in a tent can be romantic and sexy. You have to be adventurous and enjoy camping. And sometimes you have to enjoy Grizzly bears, sleeping on rocks, and food cooked over a campfire.

5. Up On The Roof
They write songs about getting freaky on the roof of buildings. If you live in a big city, you'll never wonder why. It's the closest you can get to having sex under the stars without camping (see above).

6. On A Screened Porch
It's the perfect place for first timers to try having sex in the great outdoors. Yes, you're out in the open, but you still have a roof over your head and so, technically, you're still indoors.

7. Five Yard Line
So many people fantasize about having sex in the stadium of their favorite sports team. Just remember if you choose to turn your fantasy into reality, watch out for security guards and sprinkler systems on timers.

8. Under A Waterfall
After a hike back to a remote and exotic location, there is no better way to celebrate. Ask a local tour guide for directions to a hidden waterfall.

9. On A Boat
On a small boat in the middle of the water you and your lover can enjoy a feeling of privacy like you can in few other places on earth. Why not indulge your passion and rock the boat?

10. On A Swing
That tire swing on your grandparent's farm that you used to fly on every summer as a child, could bring you all kinds of new joy as an adult. You just have to wait until everyone else is in bed and try to be quiet.

11. In A Dark Alley
This location is best when you're traveling to a seductive city like New Orleans or a small European village where the streets are narrow and not well traveled.

12. An Air Conditioned Room
When you're had your fill of having sex outdoors (if that's even possible), go home and have sex in front of the air conditioner. When the temperatures outside are in the triple digits outside, it is a blast!

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Should You Have A Summer Romance?

“Summer lovin’… had me a blast.” 

Ahh, yes! With the countdown to summer vacation in full effect, you can already taste poolside piña coladas and the lips of the sexy local that you’ll fall for this summer. 

As cliché as the “summer fling” is conceived to be, there are many of reasons why they work, and why they don't. A summer fling usually lasts longer than a one night stand, and it tends to be a little more romantic than "friends with benefits." So, should you have a "summer romance" this year?

We've put together a list of pros and cons of summer romance,. so you can decide for yourself and tell us in the comments below if you're going to indulge in a summer fling this year, or not. And why...

Pros
1. Gives you the opportunity to date someone outside of your social circle.
Maybe you've gotten into a rut and only date people who orbit in and around your social circle. Summer is the perfect time to break out of that rut and date someone just because they are geographically desirable. Who cares what they do for a living? It's all about if they're free on Friday night.

2. You won't have any emotional attachments.
Maybe you've just gotten out of a long term commitment. Now is the perfect time to let your emotions take a vacation while you do something that just feels so good.

3. Gives you a break from reality.
You can take a break from all the hats that you wear in your day-to-day life. This is especially important for single moms who don't have time for themselves. Instead of being a mom, this summer you can be a lover.

4. Be clear about what you want.
If you're just in it for the summer, make sure that everyone is clear what the rules are before you begin. That way there won't be any hurt feelings in the end.

5. Be bold.
Do something that challenges your comfort zone. If you usually wait for your partners to choose you, a summer fling is the perfect time for you to be bold and make some decisions.

Cons
1. You could complicate an already complicated relationship.
Getting involved in a summer fling just to make someone you're involved with back home jealous is not romantic at all.

2. You may be on opposite wavelengths; you want a fling and he wants commitment.
Be honest and be compassionate. Don't use someone just for your own needs.

3. Your fling could be married or committed.
Just because you feel like throwing caution to the wind, doesn't mean that you should cross the line into infidelity. Look before you leap.

4. Timing is everything.
You may be in the right place for a summer romance, both in spirit and in location -- but you may not find someone who is of like minds.

5. Your time could be better spent.
More daylight hours in the summertime makes us all more active and able to get more work done. Is there something else you should be doing this summer that might be more productive? Make sure that your summer romance isn't just a way to procrastinate from some hard work.
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25 Fun (And Cheap) Summer Dates

Summer is the perfect time to skip the same old dinner and a movie routine, and go outside and enjoy a hot (and hopefully, getting hotter summer night…).

You don't have to spend a lot of money to have a lot of fun during the summer months. We've got some great ideas for cheap dates that will get you and your significant other enjoying some quality time together.

1. Hiking
It doesn't matter whether you live in the city or the country, a romantic stroll is a great date. You can get to know each other better while you see some sights and enjoy nature.

2. Biking
What's more romantic than a bike ride? A bicycle built for two. You can rent one for cheap. biking is relaxing and healthy. Take a ride down the boardwalk or dirt path.

3. Art Exhibit or Museum
Get a little culture and enjoy a little art. Many museums have free hours during summer evenings. And galleries will often entice customers with free wine and cheese.

4. Outdoor Movie
Many cities offer a variety of outdoor movies during the summer. Pack a blanket and snuggle up to a great comedy or thriller.

5. Putt-Putt Golf
You don't have to have any golf skills to be dynamite at miniature golf. All you have to do is be able to make the ball go into the hole. You can do that, can't you?

6. Baseball Game
You can get seats in the bleachers of most MLB parks for only $5. Want to get closer to the action? Check out college and minor league baseball games. Batter up!

7. Wine, Food or Beer Festivals
Indulge yourselves in your favorite flavors. There are many festivals celebrating food and beverages in order to tempt you to become a fan. It's a great way to spend a day!

8. Sports
It doesn't matter if it's one-on-one or an organized recreational league, there is no better way to get to know someone  with a little friendly competition.

9. Open Mic Night
Sharing a laugh together is the perfect way to spend a first date. You'll come home with an inside joke that will make you both laugh for years to come.

10. Yard Sale
Who doesn't love finding a bargain? It will be even more fun if you go on a treasure hunt together.

11. You Pick Farm
Strawberries, zucchinis, peaches and tons of other delicious fruits are in season. Take your significant other off to your local farm and see what's ripe in your area.

12. Cook Out
Stoke the flames of passion on your backyard grill. Get creative and grab a couple friends and have a potluck grill-a-thon.

13. Picnic
Take a blanket and pack a picnic basket full of your favorite wine, snacks and cheeses. There is no better way to spend time together in the summer than under the shade of a tree.

14. Photo Safari
Everybody's phone has a built-in phone, so why not document your day. Get artistic and tinker with different settings and take sweet (or naughty) headshots of each other.

15. Outdoor Concert
Music under the stars, it doesn't get any better. You don’t' have to pay top dollar for concert tickets. Many cities offer free outdoor concerts.

16. Theatre in the Park
Summer is for Shakespeare! Most theatre companies offer theatre in the great outdoors in the summer and ticket prices are often discounted. Get thee to the park!

17. Star Gazing
It's cheap and it's oh-so very romantic. Look up into the night sky and you'll never know what you might find. Maybe even a shooting star to wish upon.

18. Farmers Market
Head over to the farmers market and check out the local produce. Most vendors are happy to let you sample produce and gourmet cheeses. Maybe, you'll find the ingredients for a romantic dinner for two.

19. Road Trip
There's a place on the outskirts of town that you've always wanted to go -- but have always been too busy to stop. Now is the time to check it out. It's the perfect place for a first date.

20. Bowling
A sport that involves drinking beer and eating nachos has to be fun. And it's also a sport that almost anyone can master within an hour. Try a few frames together!

21. Car Show
Get his motor running! A car show is like a street festival. There is always a band, a food truck and people out to have a good time.

22. Video Marathon
Act like a couple of couch potatoes and have a Netflix marathon of a TV show that neither one of you has ever seen before.

23. Volunteer
Do good and have fun! It won't cost you anything but time to pitch in and help out at your local community center or homeless shelter.

24. Library Night
Get library cards together! You'll discover that a library is just like your favorite bookstore -- only the books are free and you can make out in the stacks.

25. Have Sex
Why not? It is (mostly) free. And it's definitely something that you both enjoy doing together. So make some time to get sexy together.

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Michael Douglas Says Oral Sex May Have Caused His Cancer

Stop the presses! We can't believe what we heard through the Internet grapevine overnight.

Actor Michael Douglas, star of stage and screen and husband of the beautiful Catherine Zeta-Jones says cunnilingus causes cancer? 

Could that be true? 

Seriously?

Douglas was at the Cannes International Film Festival being interviewed by Xan Brooks of The Guardian. When he was asked if he thought his throat cancer was caused by drinking and smoking, he went in another directon that the reporter clearly didn't anticipate.

"No. Because, without wanting to get too specific, this particular cancer is caused by HPV (Human Papilloma Virus), which actually comes about from cunnilingus," Douglas said.

The reporter, believing he may have misheard the actor, asked Douglas to repeat his answer.

"From cunnilingus. I mean, I did worry if the stress caused by my son's incarceration didn't help trigger it. But yeah, it's a sexually transmitted disease that causes cancer."

And so just like that, Michael Douglas has brought awareness to the link between HPV and some forms of cancer. It is, in fact, true that there is a link between HPV and cancer. You can find out more about it in this MSNBC report.  

And now Michael Douglas is the new poster boy for oral sex. Who'd guessed that?

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Have Sexy Fun This Memorial Day Weekend!

Are you ready for the first three day weekend of summer? 

Memorial Day is a time of remembrance for those who have died serving our country, and you should make the time to honor your favorite vet. It's also the unofficial kick-off of summer, and since many people have Monday off work, you'll get an extra day to celebrate! Do you remember how excited you used to get for summer vacation when you were a kid? Why not bring that feeling of sheer excitement to your love life over the holiday weekend. It is the perfect time to focus on romance. As the weather gets warmer and the nights get shorter, it's time to shed a little clothing and have fun in the sun. We've got some ideas that will make your Memorial Day holiday fun and sexy. 

There's nothing that says 'summer is here' better than melted marshmallows sandwiched between chocolate and graham crackers? Get messy and make S'mores over a campfire with someone special to kick off the warmer nights of summer. Things are bound to heat up between you two, with a romantic fire and a delicious aphrodisiac like chocolate running through your system. 

Not sure if you want to spend a night camping in the great outdoors? Why not try a camping day trip? All you'll need is a two-person tent and then you can stake out your site at a nearby regional park. Make sure to pack food, beverages, sunblock and bug spray. If you're lucky, you may find a campsite near water so you can go for a swim. The best part? Privacy is only a zippered tent door away! 

Take your first trip to the beach of the summer. You've been working so hard to shed those extra pounds it's time to head to the water. Pack up the car with all the essentials for a day at the shore: a picnic basket and blanket, sunblock, an umbrella, pool towels, and a cooler. Beaches get crowded when the weather is warm, so get there early to have time to cavort nearly naked in the sand with someone you love. 

Hot summer nights are magical when there's music in the air. It's the start of outdoor concert season. It's the perfect blend of great weather, good music, and good company. It's time to break out those cute cowgirl boots and short shorts and sway to the music with your man…or maybe that handsome stranger who just can't take his eyes off of you! 

Summer is the perfect time to escape from the city and head out to the country. You'll find many small towns celebrate locally grown fruits and vegetables with country fairs and festivals. It's a great way to have fun, try new foods, and meet new people. Go online to find an art festival or county fair near you. Share funnel cakes, sample local wines, and end a perfect night with a kiss atop the Ferris Wheel. 

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Online Dating Tips For Martha Stewart

Last week, Martha Stewart revealed that not only was she interested in dating, she's got a Match.com profile. Many people were shocked to think that a woman her age (she's 71) would want to date or more importantly take lover, but the rest of us know that a vibrant woman like Martha should be dating, and having sex.

We want to give Martha big kudos for embracing the Internet age and signing up for online dating. It's a great way to meet a lot of people quickly. She may not find her perfect match through an online dating site, but it is a great way to meet people outside of your own social circle.

There are a few rules that Martha (and her contemporaries) should keep in mind when they first start online dating.

Don't Have Sex On The First Date
              Unless you want to AND you're prepared. That means you've brought protection from STDs and you're only looking for a physical relationship. Know that relationships can change after you have sex, so if that's what you want -- go for it.  A few years ago, online daters had a third date rule -- that was the date when sex became an option. No one should ever feel pressure to make a date physical. Especially if you 've just jumped back into dating after a long period of time off. You know best when you're feeling sexy, make sure that you keep to your own schedule.

Avoid Dating George Clooney

                Unless you're just in it for fun. When a man says he doesn't want to have a relationship with one particular woman...believe him. Then just sit back and enjoy yourself and don't take it too seriously. This isn't your first rodeo, so you should be able to spot a selfish lover quickly. Trust your instincts. If you think that your date isn't as emotional invested as you are in being in a relationship, walk away, it's probably true. Life is too short to be dating anyone who doesn't fit your lifestyle .

Keep Your Options Open

                Just because you've made the final purchase doesn't mean you can't window shop. Dating online shouldn't narrow your options. You should continue to look for someone nice in your social circle or neighborhood. Getting to know someone in an exercise class or where you work or volunteer, takes the pressure off of dating. While you're letting that relationship develop, you can continue online dating so you won't be sitting home alone on a Saturday night.

Establish Your Boundaries

                Don't want to have someone sleep over at your house? Just want a companion for social events? Want to date someone who lives in a different geographic location. Perfect. Tell your date what you expect from dating. Being honest will avoid hurt feelings and confusion.

Don't Abandon Your Past            

Don't feel like you have to be a "born-again" virgin to get back into the dating scene. If you're dating other people your own age, they'll expect you to come with baggage -- including ex-spouses, children and grandchildren. Someone worth dating will embrace you and everything you bring with you -- just as you will embrace them.

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Memorial Day Weekend Date Ideas

It's the first "unofficial" weekend of summer. You remember when you were in sixth grade it marked the beginning of the end. Only a week or two left before school was out for the summer and the fun would begin. 

Why not return to the thrills of your youth this weekend? Make a date to just have fun. Do something that puts you in touch with your "inner child" and take you back to a time when summer days were endless and casual Fridays were something only your dad participated in. 

We've got a few date night ideas to get your Memorial Day weekend off to a great start. 

1. Invite a friend or friends over for a BBQ. 
        Hotdogs, hamburgers and potato salad will be enough to get the party started. Maybe you can share a double dip ice cream cone for dessert. 

2. Spend a day at a botanical garden or arboretum.
        Lilacs and peonies are in full bloom this time of year and shouldn't be missed. Find a garden where you can lose yourself in the beauty of Mother Nature. 

3. Plan a nature hike.
       You know how to get to the hidden water fall, now call up a friend and take them there for the most romantic first kiss of all time. 

4. Outdoor movie screening.
       It's that time of year when you can go watch movies in your favorite park. It's a great way to share a laugh and a cuddle or two after dark. 

5. Learn a new sport.
      Now's the time to sign up for a class to learn a sport that you've always wanted to try -- but couldn't fit into your schedule. So you'll never be on the Olympic team, it doesn't mean it won't be fun. 

6. Go on a drive in the country.
      There's that one exit on your commute every day with the street name that beckons to you and makes you wonder what's out there. Now's the time to see it..and then some more. Get in the car and go. 

7. Follow a food truck. 
      Get your Twitter machine up and running and follow the location listed to the Food Truck that you've always wanted to try. There may even be a gathering of food trucks going on in your town. 

8. Take a train trip.
      Leave the driving to someone else and go off on a train trip to a tourist destination. Yes, it probably will be crowded (and fun) on Memorial Day, but if you take the train you won't have to worry about parking. 

9. Stay home 
      Catch up on the laundry, file paperwork in the home office, take a long afternoon nap, and then share a glass of wine with someone special in your own backyard. It all sounds too delicious for words. 

10. Sleep under the stars. 
      You don't have to go camping (but you could and it would be fun) to enjoy a night of star gazing with someone you admire. And don't forget to wish upon a shooting star. Your dreams just might come true. 

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