Monday, December 10, 2012

Santa's Top Five Sex Positions




Let's face it, if you were going to make a Christmas list of things you really want to find under the tree this holiday season, a wonderful sex life would probably top the list. But there's no way you can give that list to your Aunt Martha, so you're just going to write down "woolen socks" and hope that Santa will know better.  

After a long night flying around the world to deliver presents, there's no doubt that Santa is also looking forward to coming home to a little sexual healing from Mrs. Claus on Christmas Day. In the spirit of the season, we thought we'd put together Santa's naughty list. Here are a few favorite sex positions that we've dressed up for the holiday season. You can bet that they all are even better with a little lube.

1. Santa's Sleigh Ride
You don't have to wait for Christmas Eve to try this position that resembles taking a ride in Santa's sleigh. With the woman on her back and her hips on the edge of the bed, the man enters her while he's standing. She then puts her legs over his shoulders and tilts her hips slightly upwards. 

2. The Holly and The Ivy
A Christmas classic as both partners engage in oral stimulation on each other at the same time. The lovers usually lie one on top of the other or side by side. For something different, lie on your back across the bed, with your head over the edge. Then get your partner to stand astride your face. You can wrap your legs around his neck, if he bends over. 

3. Candy Cane-ing
Life is sweet in this position. This romantic position and allows for a slow and easy ride. While you're both on one side, facing in the same direction. She draws her knees up slightly, and then her partner tucks up behind her pelvis so he can enter her from behind. By adjusting the lean of your bodies, you'll vary the angle of entry and your latitude to thrust. 

4. Naughty and Nice
Come and sit on Santa's lap and tell him all about your Christmas wishes. With the man sitting on the edge of the bed, she can sit on down on him, facing away. If he's able to plant one or both of his feet on the ground, he'll have more leverage for thrusting.  She can keep her legs supported on the ground, or, for deeper penetration, she can bring her knees closer to her chest, supporting her feet on the bed.

5. The North Pole
This time of year is perfect for a trip to the north pole. The man lies on his back with legs closed. She sits down on him and once he's safely inside she bends backwards and supports herself with her hands.  She can then make rhythmic movements while he stimulates her clitoris.

Wednesday, December 5, 2012

Winter Is The Season Of Hot Romance




Most people think summer is the hottest time of the year for love and romance, but that's just not true! You don't need to let a chill in the air cool off the passion in your love life. Winter weather can be the perfect backdrop for a hot date! Colder weather means it's time to snuggle together…and you know just where that can lead. We've got a few fun ideas for winter dates that will keep your romance scorching hot throughout the big freeze in the winter months. 

Celebrate the season! 
Embrace colder weather and all of the many outdoor activities you and your partner can do together. Go skiing or ice skating, start a snowball fight, or build a snowman in the front yard. If you're feeling naughty maybe you can plan an outdoor make-out session in a secluded location. Warm up in the shower together when you're back inside. 

Winter is a great time for relaxation, rejuvenation…and romance!
You can enhance the intimacy in your relationship by taking the time to slow down and enjoy some quiet time together. Curl up with your lover in front of the fire, or make a date to take a walk in the woods or on the beach. Long talks will deepen the passion you have for each other and keep your sex life sizzling all winter long.

Dinner and a movie is so last summer! 
It's time to shake it up on date night. Heat things up and get flirty with each other in the kitchen when you sign up for a wine tasting or cooking class. Or explore your wild side and heat things up in the bedroom by taking a sex toy workshop for couples at an adult store. Find a passion to share together.

Make it a snow day!
Now that you're all grown up, you don't have to wait for the Principal to cancel school, just make a plan with your partner to be snowed in. Stay in your pajamas, curl up next to each other on the sofa, and watch dirty movies while you share lots of kisses all day and night. Pretend that it's just the two of you against the world. 

Get naked…or something very close to it!
If your sex life seems to cool during the winter months, maybe it's time to bare some skin. You don't need to spend money on a tropical vacation, just make a date with your honey to go to an indoor pool near your home. It won't matter if it's the pool at a YMCA, a swank hotel or a backyard spa – being able to frolic nearly naked is sure to make you both hot on cold winter nights.




Monday, December 3, 2012

10 Great Holiday Date Ideas





It's the holiday season, and this time of year takes all the work out of setting a romantic scene. All the elements for romance are already in place. There's a nip in the air, the decorations are hung and we're all feeling a little sentimental and full of goodwill. There’s magic in the air, so you don't have to do much to take advantage of the romantic atmosphere that's all around you. We've got 10 great ideas for dates this time of year.


1. Christmas shopping

You don't have to spend any money, just go out window shopping. You can enjoy the holiday decorations and Christmas music that is playing in most shopping areas. And in many malls this time of year, you'll find extra goodies -- like Christmas carolers and free tastings and other goodies. Get out and enjoy being a part of the crowd.


2. Christmas tree decorating

So maybe you want to be alone with your special someone. Then invite them over to help you hang up the Christmas decorations at your house. Put a fire in the fireplace and some Dean Martin tunes on the hi-fi -- this is how your grandpa seduced your grandma -- and all the same tricks will still work. Spend a night away from your smartphones, tablets and television. Just have a conversation. All that talk could lead to a lot of intimacy and passion in the bedroom. 


3. Holiday cocktails

It's the perfect time of year to invite someone to go out for a drink. You can enjoy a sweet treat like Bailey's Irish Crème, or go out and discover some new red wines together at a holiday wine tasting. You'll have so much fun and get to know each other better.


4. Ice skating

If you've never ice skated before, you'll quickly discover that the one thing you'll need at an ice rink is a helping hand. You can hold each other up as you go round and round the rink enjoying some special time together. And don't forget to sip hot cocoa during intermission. It's so romantic.


5. Looking at Christmas lights

This is the reason that Drive-Thru Starbuck's were invented! Get in the car, stop by Starbuck's for a couple of Pumpkin Spice Lattes and then head out to your favorite neighborhood where they overdue the holiday lights ever year. There is nothing like this to put you both in the mood for the holidays. And when your heart is humming Christmas songs you know you are more likely to want to get it on. 


6. Go to the Nutcracker Ballet or Christmas Carol

There are some holiday traditions that just shouldn't be missed. It doesn't matter if it's the NYC Ballet or the sixth grade class in Phoenix, the story of the Nutcracker -- and all of the music will thrill you every time. And the story of Christmas Carol always reminds you of what is really important about the holiday season -- just in case you've forgotten.


7. Holiday baking

What better way to get sweet with your honey, then by baking up some sugar plums together. Spend an afternoon baking cookies or making bread together in the kitchen. The oven temperature isn't the only thing that will rise. You may start in the kitchen, but you'll end up in the bedroom for certain.


8. Volunteer

Who could say no to day spent devoted to helping others. Not only will you be able to spend time together, you'll also feel good when the day is at the end. It's a perfect holiday date, and a tradition you can hope to share for many years to come.


9. Sledding

If there's snow on the ground, then you might as well get out and enjoy it! There's no reason to stay indoors and catch cabin fever. Wrap your arms around each other and fly down the local sledding hill. Laughing is a great way to feel sexy!


10. Watch Christmas movies

Let's face it, if the weather outside is frightful there is nothing better than a night spent inside with a big bowl of popcorn and the television remote. There are so many wonderful Christmas movies that two people can share. Start with "A Miracle on 34th Street," "It's A Wonderful Life," and "Love Actually" if you need a few suggestions.





Tuesday, November 27, 2012

Some Kind Of Wonderful: What the 80s Taught Us About Love




Let's face it, an entire generation didn't learn about love from Walt Disney, we learned about love, heartbreak and rock n' roll from John Hughes. The appeal of his movies, Sixteen Candles, Pretty in Pink, The Breakfast Club…just to name a few was overwhelming when we were watching them in our teens and twenties, but it turns out that there's still lots to learn from 80s films.

So now that winter is upon us, maybe it's the perfect time to settle in for a movie marathon with a big bowl of popcorn and some peppermint schnapps in your hot cocoa. You just may find yourself falling in love with Jake Ryan all over again. And why wouldn't you want a guy in a Porsche? Read the article on Huffington Post.com

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Thanksgiving Gets Sexy With Turkey And (Un)Dressing!



So Thanksgiving doesn't top your list as one of the sexiest of holidays?  Maybe you should think again. The message of Thanksgiving is all about gratitude and giving thanks, so why not let your partner know how much you love and appreciate them by having a little "gobble-gobble" time between the sheets. Sure, there are challenges to finding time to spend alone in between football games and your in-laws, but maybe this year you should make the effort. If you're single there's no better time than Thanksgiving to meet someone new. Accept that invitation to dinner at your co-worker's house. You just never know, she may have a very cute brother visiting from out of town.

Get into the holiday spirit! Now is the time to dust off your charm. Accept invitations from friends that you haven't seen in years. Get back in touch with people who might be visiting your area, or who live in the town you’ll be visiting for the weekend.  Your past just might hold the key to your sexy future, so get out there and enjoy the holiday festivities.  

Did you know that pumpkin pie is an aphrodisiac? Many of the foods that are traditionally found on the table at Thanksgiving contain properties that are known to naturally rev up your libido. Don't fight the feeling. If you've got the urge to be amorous, make an appointment with your significant other for a little late-night nookie. Sex burns calories, so if you know you're going get it later, you can say yes to the pumpkin pie at dinner. It's a win-win!  

Dress up and get it on!  You might be dreaming about sporting sweatpants all weekend while you're away from the office, but skipping personal hygiene for five days in a row is not going to help you get laid. Plan an outfit to wear when you're sitting at the table on Thanksgiving. Looking nice will boost your confidence and help you feel sexy. You never know who might sit down next to you.

Hello stranger! Traveling to see your family this holiday? If you're staying in a hotel with your significant other, it's the perfect time act out a sexy location fantasy. Pretend to meet as strangers at the hotel bar. Plan a make-out session in the back of a taxi or subway train. Get creative and get kinky. When are you going to have a chance like this again?

Do you think "Black Friday" deals are just for big screen TVs and ugly Christmas sweaters? Oh no! Start thinking sexy. You can bet your bottom dollar that you'll be able to find lots of great deals on naughty lingerie and sex toys.  It's a great time to update your toy box as lots of online stores will be offering discounts. Stock up now! Santa only comes once a year.